A Guide to Planning a Midweek Wedding

Planning a wedding is a major event, and one trend that’s becoming more popular is the midweek wedding. 

Traditionally, weekends have been the preferred time for weddings, but many couples are now discovering the unique benefits of tying the knot on a weekday. 

At North Shore House, we’ve seen firsthand how mid-week weddings can provide a more intimate, relaxed, and budget-friendly experience. If you’re considering this option, here’s everything you need to know to plan a beautiful and successful mid-week wedding.

Why Choose a Midweek Wedding?

One of the primary reasons couples choose a mid-week wedding is the wide range of benefits that come with it. From more venue availability to cost savings, a midweek wedding can offer several advantages.

Key Benefits:

• Lower Minimums: Our pricing is the same no matter the day of week or time of year, but we have no minimum Thursday or Sunday
• Increased Availability: With fewer couples booking weekday weddings, venues, and vendors are more likely to have your desired date available.
• Intimate and Relaxed Atmosphere: A mid-week wedding can feel more laid-back and personal, with smaller guest lists and less pressure.

At North Shore House, our wedding packages accommodate weekday weddings, providing the same stunning views and impeccable service at a reduced rate.

How to Choose the Perfect Midweek Date?

When planning a mid-week wedding, selecting the right date is crucial. While any weekday can work, some days may be more convenient for guests and vendors than others.

Midweek Date Tips:

• Consider Thursday: Lodging availability makes Thursday ideal. These days are close to the weekend, giving your guests time to recover before heading back to work—the possibility of onsite lodging the night prion.
• Avoid Major Holidays: Choosing a date that falls on or around a major holiday can make it harder for guests to attend.
• Think About Seasons: Consider whether your chosen season could impact travel plans or attendance.

The natural beauty of North Shore House is available year-round, offering breathtaking lake views in every season.

Maximizing Venue Availability and Savings

One of the biggest advantages of planning a mid-week wedding is increased venue availability. Popular wedding venues like North Shore House tend to book up quickly for weekend dates, but midweek dates are often more flexible.

Tips for Maximizing Savings:

• Vendor Availability: less demand on Thursday, so more vendor options.
• Book Early: Even for a midweek wedding, it’s still a good idea to book your venue and vendors as early as possible. 
• Access To Peak Seasons: While weekends tend to booking up weekday availability is possible and can offer your dream wedding season.

To explore our availability and pricing, visit our wedding venue page or contact us directly for a tour.

Tips for Guest Attendance

One concern couples may have about a mid-week wedding is ensuring that guests can attend. However, with proper planning and communication, you can ensure a good turnout.

Tips to Encourage Attendance:

• Send Save-the-Dates Early: Give your guests ample time to plan by sending out save-the-dates well in advance. This allows them to make necessary arrangements for work and travel.
• Offer Incentives for Travel: Consider arranging for discounted hotel rates or providing transportation for out-of-town guests.
• Flexible Timeline: If you’re worried about guests needing to get back to work, plan a shorter event or streamline the schedule by hosting earlier in the day.

At North Shore House, we offer convenient accommodation options for your guests by including a hotel room block on all 13 rooms the night of your wedding.

Working with Vendors for a Mid-week Wedding

Since vendors are typically more flexible with midweek weddings, this is a great time to customize your event and potentially save on costs. 

Vendor Tips for Midweek Weddings:

• Ask About Midweek Discounts: Don’t hesitate to ask your florist, DJ, or photographer if they offer midweek rates.
• Flexible Scheduling: Vendors may have more availability to meet with you during the planning process, making it easier to arrange meetings and tastings.
• Unique Services: With fewer weddings happening midweek, vendors can dedicate more time and attention to your event.

Our experienced team at North Shore House will work with you to ensure all vendor arrangements are seamless.

Creating a Relaxed and Intimate Atmosphere

Midweek weddings often have smaller guest lists, making them perfect for couples who want a more intimate and relaxed affair. You can focus on quality time with your closest friends and family without the pressure of a large weekend event.

Ideas for an Intimate Atmosphere:

• Personalized Details: Incorporate personal touches into the decor, such as handmade table settings or family photos.
• Outdoor Elements: Use the natural surroundings of your venue to enhance the intimate feel, whether it’s a sunset ceremony by the lake or a cozy reception under the stars.
• Streamlined Schedule: With a smaller guest list and less formal structure, you can create a schedule that allows for more relaxed moments throughout the day.

At North Shore House, our stunning lakefront property is perfect for creating a serene, intimate setting that makes your mid-week wedding unforgettable.

Conclusion:

Planning a midweek wedding can be a rewarding and stress-free experience, offering unique advantages like increased venue availability, lower minimums, and a more intimate atmosphere.

Whether you’re looking to create a cozy, relaxed celebration or simply want to take advantage of the savings, North Shore House is the perfect venue for your mid-week wedding.

To learn more about our venue, explore our wedding packages, or contact us to schedule a tour. Let us help you plan the midweek wedding of your dreams at our stunning lakefront venue.